Having or Being

Pasquale De Marco

Summary

In a world obsessed with material possessions and endless striving, this book offers a profound and transformative perspective on the human condition. Drawing inspiration from Erich Fromm's seminal work, To Have or to Be?, it delves into the dichotomy between having and being, revealing the profound impact it has on our personal lives, relationships, and society as a whole.

Through thought-provoking insights and real-life examples, this book explores the illusion of happiness through material possessions, the tyranny of consumerism, and the impact of our choices on society. It challenges us to question the dominant cultural narrative that equates success with accumulation and external validation, and instead embrace a life of authenticity, love, and meaningful connection.

With wisdom and compassion, the book guides readers on a journey of self-discovery, helping them to understand the obstacles that hinder their ability to fully embrace being, such as the fear of change, the pull of conformity, and the distractions of modern life. It also provides practical tools and strategies for cultivating a life of being, including embracing simplicity, practicing mindfulness, connecting with nature, and serving others.

The book draws inspiration from a diverse range of sources, including philosophy, psychology, spirituality, and personal narratives, to paint a vivid picture of what it means to truly be human. It offers a vision of a world where people are empowered to live authentically, connect deeply with themselves and others, and contribute to a more just and sustainable society.

Whether you are seeking greater happiness, fulfillment, or simply a deeper understanding of yourself and the world around you, this book will guide you on a transformative journey of self-discovery. It is an invitation to let go of the illusion of having and embrace the power of being.

Ultimately, this book is a call to action, a reminder that we have the power to choose a life of meaning and purpose, a life that is truly worth living. It is a book that will challenge your assumptions, inspire your thinking, and empower you to create a life that is both fulfilling and sustainable.

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Available since: 06/02/2025.

Print length: 158 pages.

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